Dad, I Miss You

Synopsis:

Told in the voice of a boy and his father by turns, this book takes a thoughtful and heartfelt look at the emotional toll of a child being taken from their family and community to attend residential school.

While the child’s internal monologue expresses his fear, confusion, and loss, the father’s monologue conveys his own sadness, fears, and hopes for the future of his child. The narrative gives voice to the things left unsaid between a parent and child experiencing this heart-rending separation. Upon his return to his community, when father and son are reunited, they must start the long process of reconnection.

Based on the author’s family history of residential school separation, this book provides a unique perspective on the difficult cycle of loss, reconnection, and regaining hope for the future.

Reviews
"Inuk author Nadia Sammurtok offers a moving dual narrative that explores the intergenerational impact of residential schools. Through the voices of a young boy sent away to school and his father left behind, the story reveals their shared pain and emotional disconnect. Although the two never speak to each other directly, their perspectives unfold in parallel, capturing the quiet devastation of forced separation. The father’s recurring line—“They said it will be better this way”—reflects the historical rationale used to justify residential schools, making this book a powerful tool for reflection and discussion." - Debra H., Elementary School Teacher, Indigenous Books for Schools

Educator Information
Recommended for ages 9 to 12.

This book is included in the Indigenous Books for Schools database from the Association of Book Publishers of BC. It is recommended for Grades 2 to 6 for Family Studies, Physical and Health Education, and Social Studies. 

Additional Infroamtion
40 pages | 9.00" x 8.00" | Hardcover